Are We “Happy” Yet?…

I believe happiness is a decision!  I have spent several years on this earth in a wonderful country, a great region, a rural environment, and with evangelical church involvement.  I have personally examined and treated approximately 3,000 patients a year for 35 years.  I think this life experience has given me a basis for this conclusion.   HAPPINESS is a DECISION!

I can’t and don’t want to write a definitive paper on this subject.  However, I want to share some thoughts that give credence to my hypothesis.   What makes a person happy?   This popular question gets asked rather frequently.  People often answer…. more money,  more time off, attend more events, indulge in life-threatening activities, partake of mind-altering substances, and various other things.  All of  these do bring some exhilaration, laughter, and pleasure.  Do these really make one happy?   I  think not.

So, what makes us truly happy?  Without using the dictionary, let me define happiness as I see and understand it.  To me, happiness is that state of mind that we have in the face of all our blessings, trials, or misfortunes that causes peace and contentment, regardless of our location on the “road of life”.  If this is the case, then achieving happiness comes from finding the source of our peace.  The Bible speaks of the peace that passes all understanding.  I find that the decision to know God and let Him become the greater part of our life is the way to happiness.  I believe that taking our “measure of faith”, even if it is as small as a mustard seed, growing it larger into a strong, tall tree is the most successful, easiest way to make the decision to choose happiness.  So in my way of thinking, if one wants to be happy, then one should make the decision to be happy, follow that path, and experience true HAPPINESS!

5 Responses to Are We “Happy” Yet?…
  1. Kevin
    July 22, 2010 | 1:19 am

    Nice post Dr. Wally. I agree completely!

    Keep it up

    • Dr. Wally
      July 22, 2010 | 9:14 am

      Thanks Kevin,your input and inspiration are appreciated.

  2. David Thomas
    July 22, 2010 | 4:51 pm

    I agree 100 percent! Rhonda had someone in a place of business tell her recently that she just looked and acted like she was happy with her life and she was able to tell her that she chooses to be happy, no matter what comes her way.

  3. Sister Teresa Shurden
    October 11, 2010 | 9:46 am

    I was thinking on the Lord this morning and I felt the Lord give me this message to give you all. All five of you. Last night you were at Metro Pentecostal Church in Tulsa, Ok. For Pastor and Sister Martin’s 10 year anniversary. All five of you all did an awesome, awesome, worship service with us. “The Lord has sent you all to wake up, the church and the lost.” Remember their was a generation that forgot God. He even let His people wonder around in the wilderness for 40 years. My mom and dad backslid 40 years ago and my Grandma Dorothy Sturman stayed and prayed our family back into the church. She was the one that listened to the kind of music that you all sing. Their was a whole generation that sought the Lord. I was 8 years old when they left, 40 years ago. (Rev 22:17 “And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.” Brother and Sister Shurden

    • Dr. Wally
      October 26, 2010 | 3:27 pm

      Thank you, pray for us all!

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